You use phrases like "he is you" and I see in your words a belief we are all really part of one great whole, and merely different aspects of some multidimensional creature.

It is true we should all be seeking to increase love in our lives.

However, your statements seem to promote willful ignorance of those around us.

John 17:21-23 That they all may be one; as thou, Father, art in me, and I in thee, that they also may be one in us...that they may be one, even as we are one: I in them, and thou in me, that they may be made perfect in one;

D&C 50:43 And the Father and I are one. I am in the Father and the Father in me; and inasmuch as ye have received me, ye are in me and I in you.

United in this Divine Essence, or Spirit is the mind of all Gods; and all the Gods being incarnations of this Spirit, become God in unity; and by the incarnation of this Spirit in Divine Personages, they become the Divine Brotherhood of the Universe, the ONE GOD, though made of many. " from the BHR post starting this thread.

Just as every leaf of a tree is One with each other and the tree as a whole, yet unique from any other, and not forming one great leaf.